BGR

First and foremost, i have to clarify that i'm definitely no way and by no means an expert in the game of BGR. All that i've mentioned in the previous post is just pure opinions of mine and if any case, they were just what i've observed, seen, or heard from.

So before my blog becomes something like a BGR forum for discussion, whereby people make posts waiting for some gurus to reply, i've to make clear that my posts are just purely opinion-based, with no or little supporting evidence or enough life experience for a start. In short, just read and forget. If it's appealing and make some sense to you, simply quote and unquote.

Alright, back to track on the hot topic; BGR. Based on the comments prior to the previous post, i can see that despite the few points i've mentioned, there are still many other factors to be considered when it comes to judging how good a guy is, for a boyfriend material.

Then again, i suppose it doesn't really matter how or what a guy has to be, in order to be considered as potential boyfriend, cause at the end of the day, there's no 10 year series model answers to it. More than often, we are drilled into our brains with lines like, "no one is perfect", "to love is to give" and etc, and as a result, we often try to compromise and compromising might just be a denial of situations, which will inevitably come crashing down on either party, some day, some time.

As i was discussing with a friend, i came out with another thought; the idea of most people usually settle for the one who's most available at that moment.

For example, you befriended this particular guy on Monday, and within 3 days, on Thursday, he became your partner. Yet on Friday, you cross path with another guy, and this guy according to the mandate or destiny or whatever you call it, is the supposedly perfect guy for you. But because of the guy you chose on Monday, you never befriend the Friday guy.

So now's the question of did you make the right choice, is the guy you chose the right guy, or should i blame on the fact that no one is able to foresee what lies ahead?

Well, in this particular scenario, i suppose you can't say what's right and what's wrong ain't it. It's just a case of whoever is available first, and whoever came first. No doubt you can always argue if one did not choose the Monday guy, the Friday guy may never come at all too. And you might just end up missing out on the "2nd best guy".

Monday to Friday may seems to be rather short, but you can just simply multiply it to months or years, and the point would still be the same. The fact is that since no one can foresee what's coming for us, what lies ahead, should one be so concerned about who and what his/her partner is?

Even the best guy you know may turn out to be a monster when you start living with him. Or when it comes to the crunch, will the guy who understands and loves you the most be still rock solid, standing there for you? Since there's no answers to all these, maybe, just maybe one should just go with the flow.

But of course this is not to encourage random BGR. The bottom line is simple. Know a guy well enough on your own, before he makes you learn more about him, in a not so nice manner.

And even when you think you have known him well enough, think again. Cause even you yourself can't assure your own faithfulness, your kindness, especially against the time factor, what makes you think others could?

That's all for this post before i need to rush back to camp again. Wanted to post more about my trainings and stuff, but i suppose not many are really interested in army stuff. It's always revolves around the same things. But i decided to make this post in case i don't get to book out this coming weekend due to live firing on Sunday. Saturday is polling day though, hope we get to book out on Friday night. If not, this shall be the post for the next 2 weeks.

Till then.