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projects and tests...
how sad...
Wednesday, February 23, 2005
Saturday, February 19, 2005
Where is the love?
this coming week shall be week 10 for my last semester
and following that, week 11, my 2 projects are due for
submittion.. and surprisingly.. er.. should i say.. no
doubt about it.. they are not even close to 20% done..
yes, its less than that.. and i don't even know what i
have been doing for the past 10 weeks.. slacking around
and doing nothing much i suppose.. hope you are not
guilty of it too.. and if you are.. please.. tell me
you are not my project team members..
jsp.. its kinda killing me inside out.. need to really
spend some time figuring out what and how to do with it
if you guys reading this and is able to provide some
help to me.. i'm glad to hear from you.. and this might
jus be the last time perhaps for you to do something for
me?
the whole of last week is pretty dull.. did nothing much,
had 2 days off on thurs and fri as there are no classes..
gambled on the wednesday.. lost.. and its proven that if
i will to gamble.. i'm bound to lose.. so if you guys
want to get some fortune out of nowhere, trying persuading
me to have some games with you.. even if i will to swap
my cards with banker, picked my cards from the deck, i'll
still lose to the banker.. i'm just a jinx to gambling..
i was told by my friends to read more 'shu' instead..
maybe i really should..
in less than 2 months.. and i'll be saying goodbye to NYP..
after spending 3 years in it, nothing much is worth
mentioning or keeping.. last year was the milestone of
my life though.. was brought to the peak of my 19 years..
and was similarly thrown to the pit of it.. had my fair
share of joy and sadness..
throughout this 3 years, i made friends and i lost some..
i got a fair share of good grades and disappointing ones..
i'm told not to be silly but i turned out to be one.. i
thought i did my best.. but i realised it wasn't good
enough.. i slacked alot and learnt nothing much.. i wasn't
exercising enough and i reckon i'm in NS, for 2 more months.
i just applied my University place last sunday.. applied
for both NUS and NTU.. been hearing 2 sides of the stories
regarding the pros and cons of the 2 universities.. and
eventually.. i applied for Computing in NUS.. and Computer
Science in NTU.. wasn't really expecting much out of it..
just hope i can get in and leave with that 'paper'...
that's all for a boring, lousy week..
changed the song for the week..
its by Black Eye Peas featuring Justin Timberlake..
Where is the love
love is kinda missing now..
especially since everything is gonna end real quick..
soon... projects will be all due.. exams is gonna come..
and then.. its bye bye to all.. and hi to NS..
ok.. till then.. enjoy the song..
this coming week shall be week 10 for my last semester
and following that, week 11, my 2 projects are due for
submittion.. and surprisingly.. er.. should i say.. no
doubt about it.. they are not even close to 20% done..
yes, its less than that.. and i don't even know what i
have been doing for the past 10 weeks.. slacking around
and doing nothing much i suppose.. hope you are not
guilty of it too.. and if you are.. please.. tell me
you are not my project team members..
jsp.. its kinda killing me inside out.. need to really
spend some time figuring out what and how to do with it
if you guys reading this and is able to provide some
help to me.. i'm glad to hear from you.. and this might
jus be the last time perhaps for you to do something for
me?
the whole of last week is pretty dull.. did nothing much,
had 2 days off on thurs and fri as there are no classes..
gambled on the wednesday.. lost.. and its proven that if
i will to gamble.. i'm bound to lose.. so if you guys
want to get some fortune out of nowhere, trying persuading
me to have some games with you.. even if i will to swap
my cards with banker, picked my cards from the deck, i'll
still lose to the banker.. i'm just a jinx to gambling..
i was told by my friends to read more 'shu' instead..
maybe i really should..
in less than 2 months.. and i'll be saying goodbye to NYP..
after spending 3 years in it, nothing much is worth
mentioning or keeping.. last year was the milestone of
my life though.. was brought to the peak of my 19 years..
and was similarly thrown to the pit of it.. had my fair
share of joy and sadness..
throughout this 3 years, i made friends and i lost some..
i got a fair share of good grades and disappointing ones..
i'm told not to be silly but i turned out to be one.. i
thought i did my best.. but i realised it wasn't good
enough.. i slacked alot and learnt nothing much.. i wasn't
exercising enough and i reckon i'm in NS, for 2 more months.
i just applied my University place last sunday.. applied
for both NUS and NTU.. been hearing 2 sides of the stories
regarding the pros and cons of the 2 universities.. and
eventually.. i applied for Computing in NUS.. and Computer
Science in NTU.. wasn't really expecting much out of it..
just hope i can get in and leave with that 'paper'...
that's all for a boring, lousy week..
changed the song for the week..
its by Black Eye Peas featuring Justin Timberlake..
Where is the love
love is kinda missing now..
especially since everything is gonna end real quick..
soon... projects will be all due.. exams is gonna come..
and then.. its bye bye to all.. and hi to NS..
ok.. till then.. enjoy the song..
Tuesday, February 15, 2005
About me
Did a personality test, and below are what the test says about me:
You are exceptional and unique. Your quest in life is to identify
exactly who you are and why you're here. What's important to you
is the journey of self discovery, determining who you are today is
not the same as who you'll be tomorrow.
You resist being categorized and are quick to question any social
standard that you sense someone imposing on you. Stereotypical
gender roles always interest you and, in your mind, connect to
issues that most other people would never even consider related.
You can "connect" with any individual person and practically read
their mind, but you have a natural tendency to match your actions
to the expectations you read from their mind and yearn for company
that lets you truly, naturally be yourself. You struggle between
letting yourself naturally match the sentiment of the group (which
feels like putting on a facade) or letting your individuality
shine, which may allow people to see how different you are.
You are particularly accepting of other people and have a special
talent for seeing people's true selves instinctively. It takes
time for you to trust your gut instinct about people because even
you don't believe that someone could be so right about another
person's nature so quickly. This intuitive sense about what
people are thinking (which is actually your hyper-attention to
nonverbal cues) is your special talent. You may think it is
available to everyone and that others just ignore it, but in truth
others could never develop the skill to the level which comes
naturally to you.
To you everything happens on a personal level. Your friends come
to you for advice because they know that you'll love them for who
they are and put yourself in their shoes to look at the world.
Your advice, although varied in delivery, usually boils down to
"be true to yourself" and "listen to your heart." You are also an
excellent confidant because things told to you never return to
anyone through the grapevine. You exude this quality so strongly
that even strangers will sometimes spontaneously begin confiding
their deepest secrets in you.
Despite all of that, you are not much of a talker. In fact, words
sometimes trip you up because you prefer nonverbal communication.
Unfortunately, most of the world is not as attuned to nonverbal
communication the way you are, so your opinion can get overshadowed
if a more outspoken person is part of the decision.
You focus more on nurturing other's self esteem than any other
type. As a result of this naturally caring nature your close friends
often turn to you for moral support.
You are by far the most talented of all types at reading nonverbal
cues. In your admirable attempts to convey a message diplomatically,
those who aren't sensitive to inflection, tone, insinuations or
body language sometimes simply do not get your message because
they only receive the verbal half of what you said.
In the same way that you're the best at reading nonverbal cues,
you're also the best at sending them. When you speak they miss
the nonverbal half of your message, then they speak and transmit
twice the message (verbal + nonverbal) which often gives away
more than they intended but is sometimes carelessly inaccurate
since they don't send nonverbal cues as well as you do. When you're
tempted to assign bias based on someone's tone or other nonverbal
cues it is wise to have them restate what they said and see if
ignoring the careless, unintentional nonverbal half of their message
lets the true meaning through.
If you have children your focus is making sure that your child
has a strong self-image and high self-esteem. More than other
parents it is important for you to be friends with your children.
You are more philosophical than most and passionately think about
ethics and justice more than other types. It is when ethical
issues come up in conversation that you most strongly sense that
you are fundamentally different from other people. You become
visually emotionally focused when these issues arise, while others
easily laugh them off and switch topics to something trivial.
To you, it seems that everyone should be passionate about
ending racism, sexism and other social ills.
You go by the book and are suspicious of anyone suggesting that
rules or laws should be ignored. You think constantly about
improving laws, and see that at a major avenue for advancing
social change because you see legislation and rule creation as
the consensus opinion of the group working together. For you
the focus is seeing everyone working together in harmony.
You are a healer and probably give great massages and know what
foods will make people happy again. You prefer to surround
yourself with direct, honest, authentic people who let you
reinvent yourself every time you meet. You want nothing more
than for there to be peace and harmony in the world, and your
actions clearly reflect that vision.
You are more strongly moved by poetry and artistic expression
than any other type. You are interested in the finer points of
different artistic mediums, having many complete and incomplete
poems and stories in your head if not on paper.
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------
So what do you guys think?
Its accurate about me?
You guys can try this too at
Personality Expert
Did a personality test, and below are what the test says about me:
You are exceptional and unique. Your quest in life is to identify
exactly who you are and why you're here. What's important to you
is the journey of self discovery, determining who you are today is
not the same as who you'll be tomorrow.
You resist being categorized and are quick to question any social
standard that you sense someone imposing on you. Stereotypical
gender roles always interest you and, in your mind, connect to
issues that most other people would never even consider related.
You can "connect" with any individual person and practically read
their mind, but you have a natural tendency to match your actions
to the expectations you read from their mind and yearn for company
that lets you truly, naturally be yourself. You struggle between
letting yourself naturally match the sentiment of the group (which
feels like putting on a facade) or letting your individuality
shine, which may allow people to see how different you are.
You are particularly accepting of other people and have a special
talent for seeing people's true selves instinctively. It takes
time for you to trust your gut instinct about people because even
you don't believe that someone could be so right about another
person's nature so quickly. This intuitive sense about what
people are thinking (which is actually your hyper-attention to
nonverbal cues) is your special talent. You may think it is
available to everyone and that others just ignore it, but in truth
others could never develop the skill to the level which comes
naturally to you.
To you everything happens on a personal level. Your friends come
to you for advice because they know that you'll love them for who
they are and put yourself in their shoes to look at the world.
Your advice, although varied in delivery, usually boils down to
"be true to yourself" and "listen to your heart." You are also an
excellent confidant because things told to you never return to
anyone through the grapevine. You exude this quality so strongly
that even strangers will sometimes spontaneously begin confiding
their deepest secrets in you.
Despite all of that, you are not much of a talker. In fact, words
sometimes trip you up because you prefer nonverbal communication.
Unfortunately, most of the world is not as attuned to nonverbal
communication the way you are, so your opinion can get overshadowed
if a more outspoken person is part of the decision.
You focus more on nurturing other's self esteem than any other
type. As a result of this naturally caring nature your close friends
often turn to you for moral support.
You are by far the most talented of all types at reading nonverbal
cues. In your admirable attempts to convey a message diplomatically,
those who aren't sensitive to inflection, tone, insinuations or
body language sometimes simply do not get your message because
they only receive the verbal half of what you said.
In the same way that you're the best at reading nonverbal cues,
you're also the best at sending them. When you speak they miss
the nonverbal half of your message, then they speak and transmit
twice the message (verbal + nonverbal) which often gives away
more than they intended but is sometimes carelessly inaccurate
since they don't send nonverbal cues as well as you do. When you're
tempted to assign bias based on someone's tone or other nonverbal
cues it is wise to have them restate what they said and see if
ignoring the careless, unintentional nonverbal half of their message
lets the true meaning through.
If you have children your focus is making sure that your child
has a strong self-image and high self-esteem. More than other
parents it is important for you to be friends with your children.
You are more philosophical than most and passionately think about
ethics and justice more than other types. It is when ethical
issues come up in conversation that you most strongly sense that
you are fundamentally different from other people. You become
visually emotionally focused when these issues arise, while others
easily laugh them off and switch topics to something trivial.
To you, it seems that everyone should be passionate about
ending racism, sexism and other social ills.
You go by the book and are suspicious of anyone suggesting that
rules or laws should be ignored. You think constantly about
improving laws, and see that at a major avenue for advancing
social change because you see legislation and rule creation as
the consensus opinion of the group working together. For you
the focus is seeing everyone working together in harmony.
You are a healer and probably give great massages and know what
foods will make people happy again. You prefer to surround
yourself with direct, honest, authentic people who let you
reinvent yourself every time you meet. You want nothing more
than for there to be peace and harmony in the world, and your
actions clearly reflect that vision.
You are more strongly moved by poetry and artistic expression
than any other type. You are interested in the finer points of
different artistic mediums, having many complete and incomplete
poems and stories in your head if not on paper.
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------
So what do you guys think?
Its accurate about me?
You guys can try this too at
Personality Expert
Thursday, February 10, 2005
Chinese New Year Sharing
Decided to let you guys do some posting for me this time round.
I'm sure there are some fun or interesting things during this
period of festive season.
Do comment below this post about some of the fun stuffs you had
and share the joy among us. Post are free-of-charge. Zero down
payments and zero subscription charge is needed. Hope you guys
are sporting enough for this. Enjoy and Happy Chinese New Year!
Decided to let you guys do some posting for me this time round.
I'm sure there are some fun or interesting things during this
period of festive season.
Do comment below this post about some of the fun stuffs you had
and share the joy among us. Post are free-of-charge. Zero down
payments and zero subscription charge is needed. Hope you guys
are sporting enough for this. Enjoy and Happy Chinese New Year!
Tuesday, February 08, 2005
Indulging in a world of mine
from wad i see and hear.. it seems like most pple are pretty excited
and enjoying themselves during this festive period.. for some reasons
unfortunately.. i'm not one of those.. but weird though.. knowing tt
most of them.. esp my frens.. are enjoying.. i feel happy for them..
somehow.. i felt happy for a moment.. maybe tt's the best i can get
out of it?
today marks the eve of chinese new year.. will be having a simple
dinner at home later.. my sis and bro will be back for dinner.. but
they will be leaving real soon.. to their next stop.. for another
dinner.. 2 reunion dinners in a day.. fattening? or sign of double
happiness for 2 families? but its gg to be nice though.. i guess..
tis wk happens to be my term break as well.. and since friday.. i haven
been doing much.. finally got my cny clothes on sunday.. got myself a
pair of shoes and a top.. wasn't really wad i'm looking for.. but.. i
jus got them wit the intention of jus bypassing the cny as quickly as
possible.. anyway.. every yr is the same.. dressed up jus for show..
dun really see a pt..
if you guys happen to be following my posts.. the past few posts i had
are some net stories.. and for some reasons.. they jus happened to be
flooded in to me at the same period.. and some food for thought aft
reading them.. i alys hav this tinking tt there's 6 billion humans in
tis earth.. every sec.. someone dies.. every sec.. a newborn baby adds
to the count.. every day.. each has his/her own story to be told..
every day.. each has his/her fair share of joy and sadness..
was reminded every now and then.. tt we shld appreciate things.. dun
take things for granted.. but seriously.. when u are in the midst of
enjoyment.. do u pause for a moment and tink of the less fortunate?
thank god or wadsoever for the time you had? i alys believe tt.. when
you are enjoying over at some place.. someone is actually suffering
wit his/her probs.. since we can nv do much abt it.. the best we can
do.. is to enjoy as much as we can for the benefit of those who cant?
as i typed.. i tink you guys muz be having this thinking in ur mind..
"why are you alys commenting abt these pessimistic stuff?" true...
no doubt abt it.. wad i post are alys pessimistic and sad things.. so
dun i hav some happy moments to share? well.. everyone has his/her
fair share of joy.. but its often tt u do rmb them more than anything
else.. sad and hurting things.. u will jus chuck them at the back of
ur brain.. and tt's when we dun learn from our mistakes?
ok.. shall not dwell much into it.. cny is meant to be a happy occasion
everyone shld be enjoying themselves.. gamble.. eat.. play.. catch up
with your relatives.. but is tt the real significance? dunno... and
its only during cny then we do tt? well.. probably very true.. cos the
rest of the time.. we are doing our stuff.. and of cos.. tis is the only
time we get to hav extra income.. for those married or grown ups..
too bad..
and soon.. it will be valentine's day.. happen to fall on the 6th day
of the lunar calendar.. and if i'm nt wrong 7th day of the lunar calendar
is the so-called 'ren ri'.. tt's when we all will 'lau yu sheng'..
saw Crys post in her blog.. abt wad her frens will be getting for their
'ones'.. basic thing to give: TLC? maybe roses? a simple dinner?
for those who are jus in the beginning phase of their relationship.. i
tink its gg to be easier.. to these couples.. all the funny.. romantic
ideas will be fighting and rushing out of their brains.. but for those
who are ald "old" couples.. i reckon it might be kinda tough.. all
the fresh exciting ideas are ald exhausted.. and then.. you will jus
settle for a simple meal.. not to say its anything bad.. but scroll down
to my previous post.. abt "The fundamentals of love".. any advice from
me? unfortunately no..
for me.. this week.. cny and valentine's day.. i'll be indulging myself
in my own world.. hopefully get myself into gear to get started for my
projs.. and of cos to settle on the courses i want to take and apply for
my University place asap..
for all those reading this.. happy chinese new year.. enjoy as much as u
can.. at least for the benefit of those who can't.. feel free to let me
know abt the joys you hav.. something to cheer me up perhaps..
for all those in relationships.. happy valentine's day in advance.. forget
about vexing wad to get for your partner.. jus tell him/her u love him/her..
cherish him/her.. everything else are jus supplementary.. and of cos.. pls
preach wad u said and promised to him/her.. words are cheap.. actions speak
volumes..
won't be online tt often esp in msn during this period..
and if i didn't respond back to u..
dun worry abt if i'm ok..
things happen for reasons..
till then..
changed to a new song for the week..
Power Station - Wai Tao
note the lyrics though..
its jus so true and 'xian shi'..
from wad i see and hear.. it seems like most pple are pretty excited
and enjoying themselves during this festive period.. for some reasons
unfortunately.. i'm not one of those.. but weird though.. knowing tt
most of them.. esp my frens.. are enjoying.. i feel happy for them..
somehow.. i felt happy for a moment.. maybe tt's the best i can get
out of it?
today marks the eve of chinese new year.. will be having a simple
dinner at home later.. my sis and bro will be back for dinner.. but
they will be leaving real soon.. to their next stop.. for another
dinner.. 2 reunion dinners in a day.. fattening? or sign of double
happiness for 2 families? but its gg to be nice though.. i guess..
tis wk happens to be my term break as well.. and since friday.. i haven
been doing much.. finally got my cny clothes on sunday.. got myself a
pair of shoes and a top.. wasn't really wad i'm looking for.. but.. i
jus got them wit the intention of jus bypassing the cny as quickly as
possible.. anyway.. every yr is the same.. dressed up jus for show..
dun really see a pt..
if you guys happen to be following my posts.. the past few posts i had
are some net stories.. and for some reasons.. they jus happened to be
flooded in to me at the same period.. and some food for thought aft
reading them.. i alys hav this tinking tt there's 6 billion humans in
tis earth.. every sec.. someone dies.. every sec.. a newborn baby adds
to the count.. every day.. each has his/her own story to be told..
every day.. each has his/her fair share of joy and sadness..
was reminded every now and then.. tt we shld appreciate things.. dun
take things for granted.. but seriously.. when u are in the midst of
enjoyment.. do u pause for a moment and tink of the less fortunate?
thank god or wadsoever for the time you had? i alys believe tt.. when
you are enjoying over at some place.. someone is actually suffering
wit his/her probs.. since we can nv do much abt it.. the best we can
do.. is to enjoy as much as we can for the benefit of those who cant?
as i typed.. i tink you guys muz be having this thinking in ur mind..
"why are you alys commenting abt these pessimistic stuff?" true...
no doubt abt it.. wad i post are alys pessimistic and sad things.. so
dun i hav some happy moments to share? well.. everyone has his/her
fair share of joy.. but its often tt u do rmb them more than anything
else.. sad and hurting things.. u will jus chuck them at the back of
ur brain.. and tt's when we dun learn from our mistakes?
ok.. shall not dwell much into it.. cny is meant to be a happy occasion
everyone shld be enjoying themselves.. gamble.. eat.. play.. catch up
with your relatives.. but is tt the real significance? dunno... and
its only during cny then we do tt? well.. probably very true.. cos the
rest of the time.. we are doing our stuff.. and of cos.. tis is the only
time we get to hav extra income.. for those married or grown ups..
too bad..
and soon.. it will be valentine's day.. happen to fall on the 6th day
of the lunar calendar.. and if i'm nt wrong 7th day of the lunar calendar
is the so-called 'ren ri'.. tt's when we all will 'lau yu sheng'..
saw Crys post in her blog.. abt wad her frens will be getting for their
'ones'.. basic thing to give: TLC? maybe roses? a simple dinner?
for those who are jus in the beginning phase of their relationship.. i
tink its gg to be easier.. to these couples.. all the funny.. romantic
ideas will be fighting and rushing out of their brains.. but for those
who are ald "old" couples.. i reckon it might be kinda tough.. all
the fresh exciting ideas are ald exhausted.. and then.. you will jus
settle for a simple meal.. not to say its anything bad.. but scroll down
to my previous post.. abt "The fundamentals of love".. any advice from
me? unfortunately no..
for me.. this week.. cny and valentine's day.. i'll be indulging myself
in my own world.. hopefully get myself into gear to get started for my
projs.. and of cos to settle on the courses i want to take and apply for
my University place asap..
for all those reading this.. happy chinese new year.. enjoy as much as u
can.. at least for the benefit of those who can't.. feel free to let me
know abt the joys you hav.. something to cheer me up perhaps..
for all those in relationships.. happy valentine's day in advance.. forget
about vexing wad to get for your partner.. jus tell him/her u love him/her..
cherish him/her.. everything else are jus supplementary.. and of cos.. pls
preach wad u said and promised to him/her.. words are cheap.. actions speak
volumes..
won't be online tt often esp in msn during this period..
and if i didn't respond back to u..
dun worry abt if i'm ok..
things happen for reasons..
till then..
changed to a new song for the week..
Power Station - Wai Tao
note the lyrics though..
its jus so true and 'xian shi'..
Monday, February 07, 2005
Not about looks?
(Story originated from email)
Message: This is based on a true story.. If
you like it, re- post it.. Perhaps you will
find the love you have been waiting for all
this time..
He was not handsome..But he had feelings..
One day, he felt in love with a woman..A
woman he really had a crush on..But he
realized that he was not handsome..So he
kept it deep inside his heart..
He was not handsome..Knowing this, he still
approached the girl he admired..Upon
approaching her, he asked her name and
asked for her number.. They came into
contact with each other..The guy was happy
and he felt nice talking to the lady..
He was not handsome..He had to remember
this all the time..He knew he couldnt say out
his wish to the lady..However, one day, he
took up the strength to call that lady..When
he was about to pick up the reciever, the phone
rang..It was her..His crush...His lady of his
dreams..She asked him out on that night..There
was no reason for him to say NO..That night,
they went to a restaurant..for dinner..
He was not handsome..This was proven to
him at that night..When the lady told him that
she had a crush on a guy..He was crushed
into pieces by his own crush..but he didnt
say a word..He knew it..He was not handsome...
He was not handsome..and he knew he
wont get his girl of his dream..So he intended to
help the lady out..He took the lady to the guy
whom she had a crush on..After a week, he
saw the lady dating with the guy..He knew
that there is no more hope for him..
He was not handsome..and this made him
loose his love..He just kept his feelings deep
inside his heart..But it was okay for him..as
his love was happy with the guy she loved..
He was not handsome..but maybe his
powerful love brought his lady back to
him..One day, the lady came all the way
crying to him..She said to him that she lost
her virginity and the guy dumped him..She
was all in tears and didnt know where to go..
He was not handsome..but he loved her..He
wiped the tears off the lady and gave a warm
hug..The lady felt the warm feel gush through
her nerves and touch her heart deep
inside..She realized that this is her true love..
He was not handsome..but he found his love
finally..and he was happy ...
p/s: looks are not really the most important
thing in love..Consider the feelings of
the ppl around you..You might just find
that true love of yours..He may not be
handsome..but he might love you more than
anyone could ever love you.. and that is
greater than some handsome idiots who
doesn't love u.
(Story originated from email)
Message: This is based on a true story.. If
you like it, re- post it.. Perhaps you will
find the love you have been waiting for all
this time..
He was not handsome..But he had feelings..
One day, he felt in love with a woman..A
woman he really had a crush on..But he
realized that he was not handsome..So he
kept it deep inside his heart..
He was not handsome..Knowing this, he still
approached the girl he admired..Upon
approaching her, he asked her name and
asked for her number.. They came into
contact with each other..The guy was happy
and he felt nice talking to the lady..
He was not handsome..He had to remember
this all the time..He knew he couldnt say out
his wish to the lady..However, one day, he
took up the strength to call that lady..When
he was about to pick up the reciever, the phone
rang..It was her..His crush...His lady of his
dreams..She asked him out on that night..There
was no reason for him to say NO..That night,
they went to a restaurant..for dinner..
He was not handsome..This was proven to
him at that night..When the lady told him that
she had a crush on a guy..He was crushed
into pieces by his own crush..but he didnt
say a word..He knew it..He was not handsome...
He was not handsome..and he knew he
wont get his girl of his dream..So he intended to
help the lady out..He took the lady to the guy
whom she had a crush on..After a week, he
saw the lady dating with the guy..He knew
that there is no more hope for him..
He was not handsome..and this made him
loose his love..He just kept his feelings deep
inside his heart..But it was okay for him..as
his love was happy with the guy she loved..
He was not handsome..but maybe his
powerful love brought his lady back to
him..One day, the lady came all the way
crying to him..She said to him that she lost
her virginity and the guy dumped him..She
was all in tears and didnt know where to go..
He was not handsome..but he loved her..He
wiped the tears off the lady and gave a warm
hug..The lady felt the warm feel gush through
her nerves and touch her heart deep
inside..She realized that this is her true love..
He was not handsome..but he found his love
finally..and he was happy ...
p/s: looks are not really the most important
thing in love..Consider the feelings of
the ppl around you..You might just find
that true love of yours..He may not be
handsome..but he might love you more than
anyone could ever love you.. and that is
greater than some handsome idiots who
doesn't love u.
Saturday, February 05, 2005
The fundamentals of love
Think back to the day when you first laid eyes on her.
You found yourself charmed by the way she talks, the way
she dresses herself to show off her best features and the
way she embraces life with her laughter. It seemed as if
a mysterious "chemistry effect" has suddenly developed to
draw you closer to her.
You two then began to meet regularly, and you discover
more things that you admire about her. Her clever ideas,
her healthy values and the way she stands up for you when
others doubt you. You find yourself thinking of her not
just as a normal friend, but a very good friend. It is
often during this period that a boy and a gal will start
thinking of bringing their friendship to another level.
After all, the kind of wonderful experience you have
between each other can only become even better if it
develops into a romantic relationship. In other words,
the feeling is really unique -
no one else seems able to replace her in your heart.
So both of you agree to go steady and work even harder
on the relationship. You "graduate" to become a couple,
and are the envy of the sea of singles.
When You Forget The Fundamentals
However, at some point in your relationship, you forgot
how it all began. You start to take your partner for
granted. Why can't she laugh in a more ladylike manner?
Why doesn't she dress herself more trendily? Why must she
assert her views and point out your silly mistakes? Is she
really the one for you?
To be fair to yourself and to her, take some time to reflect
on your "love memory". The "love memory" contains all the
reasons that you fell in love with her right from Day One.
It contains rarely accessed snippets of how your life has
changed since meeting and loving her.
Pre-steady days, did you heap compliments on her for the
brave way she spoke her mind on bullies and snobs? You
probably did. Did you like her unusual fashion sense that
makes her stand out from the crowd? Right-o. So why are you
criticising or finding fault with her now that she is your
girlfriend?
Because you have forgotten the fundamentals of love, like
so many of us. You have forgotten the reasons you admired
her during the friendship phase. Instead, once you went
steady, you put your "love memory" in cold storage. As her
boyfriend, you take up a new set of demands and expectations
about her. These new ideas are not necessarily better; they
could put your relationship at risk.
The Secret Of Strong Relationships
A healthy relationship, like learning to walk properly, follows
a step-by-step development. You can't possibly become part of a
couple if you aren't friends in the first place. Ok, I know
some of us break the rule and plunge straight into whirlwind
courtship, but how many of those couples can go the distance?
Couplehood works well when there is something you like about her
(and vice versa), and I'm not referring to merely the physical
aspects. So whenever your relationship hits a rocky path, don't
give up without checking on your "love memory". Rediscover the
reasons why you fell in love with her, and watch your relationship
flourish with a newfound vigour.
"Follow the rule of love and enjoy it, as loving someone is a
wonderful and sweet experience."
Think back to the day when you first laid eyes on her.
You found yourself charmed by the way she talks, the way
she dresses herself to show off her best features and the
way she embraces life with her laughter. It seemed as if
a mysterious "chemistry effect" has suddenly developed to
draw you closer to her.
You two then began to meet regularly, and you discover
more things that you admire about her. Her clever ideas,
her healthy values and the way she stands up for you when
others doubt you. You find yourself thinking of her not
just as a normal friend, but a very good friend. It is
often during this period that a boy and a gal will start
thinking of bringing their friendship to another level.
After all, the kind of wonderful experience you have
between each other can only become even better if it
develops into a romantic relationship. In other words,
the feeling is really unique -
no one else seems able to replace her in your heart.
So both of you agree to go steady and work even harder
on the relationship. You "graduate" to become a couple,
and are the envy of the sea of singles.
When You Forget The Fundamentals
However, at some point in your relationship, you forgot
how it all began. You start to take your partner for
granted. Why can't she laugh in a more ladylike manner?
Why doesn't she dress herself more trendily? Why must she
assert her views and point out your silly mistakes? Is she
really the one for you?
To be fair to yourself and to her, take some time to reflect
on your "love memory". The "love memory" contains all the
reasons that you fell in love with her right from Day One.
It contains rarely accessed snippets of how your life has
changed since meeting and loving her.
Pre-steady days, did you heap compliments on her for the
brave way she spoke her mind on bullies and snobs? You
probably did. Did you like her unusual fashion sense that
makes her stand out from the crowd? Right-o. So why are you
criticising or finding fault with her now that she is your
girlfriend?
Because you have forgotten the fundamentals of love, like
so many of us. You have forgotten the reasons you admired
her during the friendship phase. Instead, once you went
steady, you put your "love memory" in cold storage. As her
boyfriend, you take up a new set of demands and expectations
about her. These new ideas are not necessarily better; they
could put your relationship at risk.
The Secret Of Strong Relationships
A healthy relationship, like learning to walk properly, follows
a step-by-step development. You can't possibly become part of a
couple if you aren't friends in the first place. Ok, I know
some of us break the rule and plunge straight into whirlwind
courtship, but how many of those couples can go the distance?
Couplehood works well when there is something you like about her
(and vice versa), and I'm not referring to merely the physical
aspects. So whenever your relationship hits a rocky path, don't
give up without checking on your "love memory". Rediscover the
reasons why you fell in love with her, and watch your relationship
flourish with a newfound vigour.
"Follow the rule of love and enjoy it, as loving someone is a
wonderful and sweet experience."
Thursday, February 03, 2005
University Admission
attended both the NUS and NTU held in sch for the past 2 days..
and aft attending both of them.. here are some of wad i managed
to find out:
1) NUS DOES NOT allow poly grads INCLUDING COM (Top 5%) to choose
any other courses that are irrelevant to their Diploma studies.
2) NUS Arts & Social Science and Business Adminstration is open
open to all Diploma holders and to all polytechnics.
3) NUS only takes in 10% poly grads, which is abt 600 students.
4) NTU ALLOWS poly grads with COM (Top 5%) to choose ANY other
courses that are not relevant to their diploma studies with no
advance standing to year 2.
5) NTU guarantees freshmen a hostel place for the 1st year.
6) NTU claims to take 2/3 of poly students who managed to get
into the local university, so to say around 1200 students.
for my course Diploma in Business Informatics, i'm only allow
to enrol into Degree of Computing, Degree of Business Admin
and Degree of Arts & Social Science for NUS.. but for NTU..
i'm free for all with my COM.. but the problem comes here..
i realised something over at the website of NUS and NTU.. and
that's.. NTU dun seems to hav a School of Computing.. they do
offer Degree of Computer Science.. but its gg to be Engineering
Degree..
whereas.. NUS has Degree of Computing with 4 different
programmes like..
Electronic Commerce (computing + biz)
Computer Engineering (computing + engineering)
Communications and Media (computing + arts and social science)
Computational Biology (computing + science)
and these 4 are direct 4-years entry to Honours.. and its a
Computing Degree..
i'm kinda puzzled by NUS and NTU computing degrees.. jus wad is
the main difference? and many are claiming tt NTU is better..
why is tt so? and i'm tinking of gg into other faculty and not
to do IT anymore for my degree.. but will it be a waste?
closing date for online application to NUS and NTU ends at 21st
Feb.. serious advice is needed..
what shld i take?
where shld i go?
attended both the NUS and NTU held in sch for the past 2 days..
and aft attending both of them.. here are some of wad i managed
to find out:
1) NUS DOES NOT allow poly grads INCLUDING COM (Top 5%) to choose
any other courses that are irrelevant to their Diploma studies.
2) NUS Arts & Social Science and Business Adminstration is open
open to all Diploma holders and to all polytechnics.
3) NUS only takes in 10% poly grads, which is abt 600 students.
4) NTU ALLOWS poly grads with COM (Top 5%) to choose ANY other
courses that are not relevant to their diploma studies with no
advance standing to year 2.
5) NTU guarantees freshmen a hostel place for the 1st year.
6) NTU claims to take 2/3 of poly students who managed to get
into the local university, so to say around 1200 students.
for my course Diploma in Business Informatics, i'm only allow
to enrol into Degree of Computing, Degree of Business Admin
and Degree of Arts & Social Science for NUS.. but for NTU..
i'm free for all with my COM.. but the problem comes here..
i realised something over at the website of NUS and NTU.. and
that's.. NTU dun seems to hav a School of Computing.. they do
offer Degree of Computer Science.. but its gg to be Engineering
Degree..
whereas.. NUS has Degree of Computing with 4 different
programmes like..
Electronic Commerce (computing + biz)
Computer Engineering (computing + engineering)
Communications and Media (computing + arts and social science)
Computational Biology (computing + science)
and these 4 are direct 4-years entry to Honours.. and its a
Computing Degree..
i'm kinda puzzled by NUS and NTU computing degrees.. jus wad is
the main difference? and many are claiming tt NTU is better..
why is tt so? and i'm tinking of gg into other faculty and not
to do IT anymore for my degree.. but will it be a waste?
closing date for online application to NUS and NTU ends at 21st
Feb.. serious advice is needed..
what shld i take?
where shld i go?
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