Small talks

It has been some time since i last updated my blog, so here i am again to post up some whining for my faithful blog followers. No idea what and how i'm going to start this post, thus i'll just do all the small talks here, just like what my title suggests.

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Let's move on to discuss about relationship; the topic that never runs dry of discussions.

A friend of mine was sharing with me yesterday the cruel fact that the gal he fancy just got attached lately. And he popped a question to me, asking why do gals like to mention this phrase, "You can get another better gal." Any gals out there would like to help me out with this?

Just an opinion from me, i feel that it's like a friendly line to comfort and maybe console the guy? And the worse thing is that you can't blame the gal for anything. It's a game whereby it takes 2 hands to clap. But of course to be fair to my friend, he did alot for the gal too.

Not forgetting that i questioned him when we were over at Australia while he's doing all the silly tiring stuff for the gal. "Does she know how much effort you put into all that you've done?", "Would it be better to see her happy with someone else she loves, or happier for yourself to be the someone she loves?"

Well, i suppose there's never a right or wrong to it. Sometimes it's not even about the effort you put into it. During my lunch today, another friend was like asking us, have we ever wondered why sometimes it's hard to get someone you like, someone pretty, to be your partner and yet those who are not of your interest and less appealing to you, fall for you instead?

The reason he gave was that because when we are with the one we like or someone pretty, we tend to put up an unnatural side of us, trying hard to impress the person. We controlled the way we speak, the way we behave, simply holding back the way we carry ourselves. Whereas, in front of gals who ain't our cup of tea, we will just be natural, hurling away the most violent vulgarities, and carry ourselves like some beggers, simply ignorant to her presence.

So most of the time, it's always the same of plot of A fancies B, B fancies C and yet C fancies D. So at the end of the day, everyone starts to be D and none will be A. Which role are you in now?

Not going to go much into this issue, just a quick touch of the surface. And to my friend, though i hate to say this, and even me myself is sick of hearing these; just take it easy, time heals all wounds and you will find your right one someday.

As for myself, it's game over. I shall be adding on my single days as i go along. Been too tired trying to be someone. Being a single yearning for a relationship, yet i see my friends all wanting to be single again. How ironic life can be.

Alright, that's all for now. I've changed to a new song. The song that captivated me the moment i heard it. Probably meant alot to me again. Enjoy it and for the gals out there, go easy on the guys! Till then.